Lonely people

2020 is definitely
The year when the social structure of the world began to change significantly
Will be.
In particular, what had to change drastically,
"Relationship between people".

When people called out "three secrets" and "social distance"
Distance has come to be created between people.
However, originally Japanese people
Not a culture like hugs and kisses like overseas,
It's a culture of bowing and etiquette,
It is an ethnic group that maintains an appropriate distance,
You had a natural antivirus habit.

That said,
For people and people
A strong negative image was planted,
Judge people who are not self-restraint
A phenomenon called "self-restraint police" was born.

However,
Is the place where people gather absolutely inappropriate? I mean
I don't think so.
"A group of people who really have a relationship of trust"
Will be like.

For example, with family and partners,
You don't mind if the distance is short, right?
On the other hand, to get closer to others
I unconsciously think "dangerous!"
This may be the future.
That is,
"It's okay if people with family-like relationships approach you."
about it.

On the other hand,
I don't want to be easily crowded with other people
The polarization will occur mentally in the future.
Until now,
The "thin relationship" overflowed too much,
I think that the day will come.

And flocking with people with a thin connection,
In other words, when physical crowding is no longer possible,
It tries to make a thin connection again on the net.
But that alone will make it harder.
When that happened,
"Really deep connection"
At the same time they will start to seek.

Now,
Many successful people and talented people are all
"Nobody really understands me"
It seems that he is worried.

Outside, many people are looking for themselves,
He loves and gathers himself.
But that is
Rather than myself
Such as your ability, talent, achievements, know-how,
They are attracted by "decoratives" and are gathering together.

“But nobody really understands me.”
"No, if you really show yourself, you might be disliked...?"
I'm even wondering.

And this is not just for successful people,
Isn't it a problem that almost everyone has more or less?

Those who are called successful people
It happens that people get together according to their “label”,
Is respected by many,
Is liked and
That can disguise your fear.

But when it’s time for one person,
It is attacked by intense loneliness.
So
"I just want to connect with someone"
"I want to be relieved to be connected to many people even if they are thin."
I think.

And at the same time,
"I want someone who truly faces me and accepts everything."
I think.

Many people in the world
"I'm afraid that people will move away from themselves as their illusions break"
I thought
Brand yourself thoroughly,
I continue to ask for more power,
I desperately continue to study.

But the more I study, the more
The more power you get,
Rather, "loneliness" continues to increase.

Again,
These things are not limited to successful people.
Probably from now on
I think many will come out.

Until now, in a thin relationship
Connecting with so many people,
Somehow "I have a lot of friends!"
I was thinking,
It was forcibly cut off by a self-restraint request,
"Yes, maybe with whom
I couldn't make a proper relationship..."
You may notice that.

Not just personal connections between people,
It is indispensable in the workplace and other communities
"Relationship".

Even in the community
"What kind of connection (relationship) is made between people?"
That is the most important thing.
In particular,
Between people (relationship),
Is there "warmth"?
Is the most important.
Whether there is this, the community
It will change a lot.

No matter how sublime,
Even if everyone was heading there,
If there is no "warmth" in the relationship,
It’s nice when it’s working, but
If something happens, it easily breaks.
Alternatively,
Many people will come closer to use the idea.

Corona originally stands for "sun".
The sun's rays hit the world by the coronavirus,
The thin relationship has disappeared.
That's why only the essential deep connections remain.

Why am I making such a transmission?
It's subconscious
Because we are looking for an intrinsically strong connection
maybe.
I want to create a warm community
I also think

“Well-being life with pets”
The theme is a blog, but at the root of it
"Happiness of you, the owner"
Is important!

To some degree,
Many "lonely people" including myself,
May we become "happy people" (^o^)/